This is a topic that I had been contemplating for the longest time; whether to start or not to start. I (we) am staying with my PIL since the first day of marriage. Whenever I told people about this little fact of my life, they will usually give me a surprised facial expression and proceed to ask me how do I find it? Well, to answer this tough question is two-sided. On the surface I may seems pretty ok with it. Telling people that I am ok with my lifestyle choice and look at the brighter side :- Homecook dinner at home Someone to help out the laundry, which means you get to dry your laundry on working days cos someone is home to bring it under the porch if it rains Someone at home to collect your parcel Someone to take care of your kid so that your kid does not need to be homeless and stay most of the time at day care Fuss free with all the utilility bills, house defect or even cleanliness of the house as all is taken care by PIL Showing good example to my son that we should be